Ahhhhh, chemo DAY 1 10
It has begun. Treatments. Chemo. New doses, some new information, and some familiar feelings of nausea.
Nausea sucks rocks.
Ingrid went in this morning at 10am for her first chemo cycle (of 6) and is fighting hard. Fighting the nausea and fighting thoughts that go something like, “really?” and “WTF” and “these pills don’t do anything”. But this is paraphrased by me (Nico) since Ingrid is just trying to distract herself with a movie. I offered one of her friends 3 bucks if she could come over and make her laugh to give you some perspective on the amount of smiles going on right now.
Highlights of the day:
- A good friend, Kathy Wiebe, came and hung out for the treatment
- Seeing Misha read the first 2 chapters of a new eBook (Heaven is for Real) to her in bed
- Having a post-chemo nap on the couch with Maya (our 1 year-old puppy)
- A meal delivered to our door at dinner time by the Smailes family (huge thanks to you & our good friend Jenn Funk for organizing the Meal Train for us – if I were to cook I would most likely destroy the health of our kids at speeds unfamiliar to mankind so this is an unbelievable gift).
One of the toughest pieces of info we heard today was that this chemo will most likely take Ingrid’s hair. But you never know, maybe they were joking (removed because this wasn’t funny right now).
As we were leaving we saw an old friend going in for her first chemo treatment who said she was reading Psalm 118 vs. 17 this morning. So we broke out the good Word and read this: “I will not die but live. And I will tell of what the Lord has done.”
Jessica
October 31, 2012 @ 4:25 AM
Praying Ingrid, that you have strength for each day – one day at a time. xo
Me and my girls recently read “Heaven Is For Real” together. It’s so wonderful. You’ll LOVE it!
Pauline
October 31, 2012 @ 4:35 AM
Dear Nico and Ingrid and sweet kids.
I have been thinking a lot of you today.
Not sure what to say else..
This must be so difficult and overwhelming in so many ways.
So glad to hear you guys have support out there to bring you meals and smiles and friendship.
I am so proud of you Ingrid.. you did it today.
Weetje, toen mijn zus chemo kreeg, had ze altijd trek in patat 🙂 dat werkte naast de anti mislijkheid pillen het beste tegen haar misselijkheid… en hagelslag 🙂 veel hagelslag 🙂
Ik hoop dat je jouw tegen-misselijkheid snel zal kunnen ontdekken.
Ik vind het echt zo naar voor je. Ik kan niet anders zeggen.
Wat een tijd, wat een tijd moet je doorheen gaan.
Zijn vrede en kracht om iedere moment door te kunnen gaan met al dit ‘gedoe’.
Liefs van Pauline
marry
October 31, 2012 @ 5:50 AM
Lieve schatten, in gedachten bij jullie, zou willen dat ik jullie gewoon even lekker kon huggen, maar ja ik moet gewoon gaan werken in Den Bosch dus dat zit er niet in dus daarom moeten we maar genoegen nemen met deze digi-hug
Liefs Marry
Luli
October 31, 2012 @ 6:37 AM
Ingrid, we love you and are praying for you!!! Love, luli, Paul and the little Sanchez’s.
Bart
October 31, 2012 @ 6:46 AM
Nico, you crack me up! Heul veel sterke Ingrid!
Hannie
October 31, 2012 @ 8:35 AM
Thanks Nico, for sharing this in the best way (your way) I need to know how my sister is going tru this heavy, crazynezzzz…
I love you all so much and I feel so much grief about it… I hope that the way Jesus is holding me in the storm; He holds the 4 of you in His loving arms. (nice psalm; Gods Word spoken over Ingrids life!!!)
Shalom, blessings and hugs, Hannie
Brenda Helms
October 31, 2012 @ 9:59 AM
You are doing a great job making this Blog! Your humor really has surprised me.
I wish you and your familiy lots and lots of strength and healing!
Janneke
October 31, 2012 @ 11:54 AM
Deur family,
Don’t know what to say. Just want to let you know we’re thinking of you. Wish you all find strength to get trough this as a family.
Lieve Ingrid, ik steek een kaarsje voor je hier in Zwijndrecht, dikke kus
Dave Harder
October 31, 2012 @ 2:28 PM
Sorry to hear that the cancer is back. I’ll let the girls know so that we can all be praying for you.
Daphne
November 1, 2012 @ 10:13 AM
Liefje ik denk aan je en hou van je !!!